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Bonus Tools

Thrive is a great 2-day investment every year, but what about the other 363 days? Take intentionality with you! We have taken the time to compile everything you need for a stronger marriage—real conversations, fun date night questions and practical tools to grow together.
Date Night Questions:
  1. What are three ways I’m blessing you? What’s one way I could bless you more?
  2. What are two things that, when you see me do them, make you think, “Wow, I can’t believe how good you are at that!”?
  3. In our first month together, what first attracted you to me?
  4. What is something you believe God is calling you to do or might call you to do before your life is over?
    (Hint: the answer to that question is often found by asking, “What are you afraid to do, but that you are uncomfortable having not yet done?”)
  5. What things have I ever done that made you feel most valued?
  6. What are your top three memories from the first time we met until we got married?
  7. If you could re-live one year of our married life together, which one would you choose and why?
  8. What about our life is the most different from what you imagined when we got engaged?
  9. What's the best physical intimacy moment we’ve ever experienced together and why?
  10. If God is incredibly gracious and everything goes amazingly for the next 5 years, what would you want our life to look like?